Understanding The Unconscious Programs That Influence Your Life
- jarasieneieva
- Sep 4, 2024
- 4 min read

In our journey of personal growth and self-discovery, we often encounter unseen forces that shape our thoughts, emotions, and actions. Among these forces are "programs", which can come from a variety of sources, including past experiences, societal conditioning, and even past lives. While some programs can serve us well for some time, guiding us toward positive outcomes, others act as invisible barriers, blocking our path to deeper insights and fuller understanding. In this article, we will explore what these programs are, how they influence our lives, and what we can do to identify and annul them.
What Are Programs?
Programs, in the context of personal development, are deeply ingrained patterns of thought, emotion, and behavior that operate at a subconscious level. Unlike conscious beliefs, which we can easily articulate and examine, programs often run in the background of our minds, subtly influencing our choices and actions without us even realizing it.
These programs can be likened to software that runs on a computer. Just as software directs how a computer functions, programs direct how we perceive and interact with the world. They shape our understanding of ourselves, our relationships, and our place in the world, often limiting our ability to see beyond our current circumstances.
Origins of Programs: Positive and Negative Experiences
Programs are formed throughout our lives based on a wide range of experiences.
Negative Experiences: Many programs stem from negative or traumatic experiences, where we internalize messages like "I am not good enough", "The world is a dangerous place", or "I must always be in control". These programs often serve as protective mechanisms, helping us avoid similar pain in the future, but they can also keep us stuck in limiting patterns.
Positive Experiences: Surprisingly, programs can also develop from positive experiences. For instance, a program might form around the idea that "Success only comes from hard work and struggle", based on a time when this was true. While this belief might have served you well in a particular context, it can become a block if it prevents you from recognizing other paths to success that are less effortful or stressful.
Past Lives and Ancestral Influences: Some programs may even originate from past lives or ancestral experiences. These inherited patterns can manifest as unexplained fears, chronic behaviors, or repeating life patterns that seem beyond our immediate control or understanding. Whether one believes in past lives literally or sees them as metaphors for deeply ingrained generational patterns, these programs can have a powerful influence on our current life experience.
The Impact of Programs on Personal Growth
Programs have a profound impact on personal growth and development. By influencing our beliefs and behaviors, they can create patterns that are difficult to break free from, even when they no longer serve us. These patterns can manifest in various aspects of our lives, including:
Career: A program that equates success with constant hard work can lead to burnout and prevent you from recognizing when it’s time to rest or delegate.
Relationships: Programs formed around trust issues or fear of vulnerability can prevent you from forming deep, meaningful connections with others.
Self-Perception: Programs based on past criticism or failure can result in a negative self-image, hindering your confidence and ability to pursue new opportunities.
Understanding and Annulling Programs
Breaking free from limiting programs starts with understanding where these programs originate. Much of our lives are shaped by the first 14 years, during which our foundational understanding of the world is formed. However, it’s not only these early years that influence us. Once a program is identified, it’s crucial to understand how it was formed. Programs might be imposed on us by others, for example, if your parents were hard working and instilled the belief that "to take care of a family, you need to work hard and a lot". Such programs must be annulled because the world and life are constantly evolving. While a century ago, hard physical labor was necessary for survival, today's world offers numerous opportunities and methods. What’s most important now is choosing work, tactics, and actions that are genuinely led by the heart. No new program should replace an annulled one, as even seemingly 'supportive' programs can set limits.
Consider another example: if you haven't succeeded in a project, you might set a program for yourself, believing you are unable to work on projects. In such cases, it's important to understand why you didn't succeed. It might be the project wasn’t aligned with your heart, and you shouldn't have started it in the first place, or maybe the failure was meant to teach you something valuable. It’s also possible that you invested too much energy, causing an imbalance that led to the project's collapse on an energetic level. There may many possible causes, and deeper self reflection can answer these questions.
When we annul programs, we should not replace them with new ones, as they might eventually become blocks again. Instead, ask your mind and logic to settle into their proper places (this prevents them from dominating your understanding and perception). Allow the right perceptions and understanding to come from your deeper self and the universe, simply let the information flow to you.